Do you get annoyed when sitting in a quiet carriage on a train if people talk, ignoring the comfort of others?
I’m writing this in a quiet carriage, listening to the exploits of the grandchildren of the woman in front of me—and, no, I wouldn’t put anything past kids these days—but I doubt what you said to their mother had any impact on her at all, and even less on the children’s behaviour.
It’s important, isn’t it, to be polite, to show that you care for others, to consider the comfort of others?
It’s equally important in business to consider the people with whom you work, to consider their feelings.
You do this when dealing with people you meet in person, but it’s just as important to show courtesy when writing.
Minutes of the board meeting 27/02/23 – FYI clearly labels what is in the email.
If a subject is tagged ‘For your information’ it shows that the recipient does not need to open it, or does not need to open it until they require the information.
Next board meeting is 27/03/23 EOM clearly signals that there is nothing extra in the email.
‘End of Message (EOM)’ tells the recipient that they don’t need to open the email.
Read over your emails before you send them to make sure they can’t be misinterpreted. It’s hard to convey tone in an email, so it’s very important to choose your words carefully.
Do you have any other tips for courtesy in business writing? What are your pet peeves? Let me know in the comments!